My wife and I have a 2022 Elite II on order. We are weighing battery upgrade issues as well.
Although I have no RV experience, I would not spend the extra $1200 to upgrade from wet cell to AGM. Both wet cell and AGMs have lead/acid chemistry, and will likely last anywhere from 3-5 years. Like most folks, I have wet cell batteries in my vehicles, but until recently, used 12V AGMs to power my CPAP machine on extended wilderness river trips because they are sealed (I now use 12V LiFeP04 batteries to save weight). 5 years is the most I ever get from either wet cells or AGMs.
It would not be worth $1200 to me ($240-$400 per year depending on whether they last 3 or 5 years) to avoid topping off the wet cells for that period of time. When they die, I would then replace the wet cells with AGMs, because the price differential between wet cell and AGM is not that much. You can buy highly-rated 100Ah AGM batteries today for about $200, so about $800 for 400Ah.
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That said, we are presently planning to spend the extra $$$$ on the Lithium Pro Package, for many reasons: (1) we view it as "future proofing" (it's a lot easier to have the more robust 3kw inverter and wiring infrastructure installed during construction); (2) we hope to be able to run the AC with just our 2kw generator, which requires the Micro Air Easy Start (which is also much easier to install in the factory before the AC goes on the roof); (3) we want to be able to run the AC, albeit for only a short time, on the batteries; (4) LiFePO4 accepts a full charge much faster than lead/acid, and so is more efficiently recharged with solar; (5) 390Ah of LiFePO4 provides much more usable battery capacity than 400 Ah of wet cell, because only about 50% of lead/acid capacity is usable before recharge compared to 85% with LiFePO4; (6) payload,and therefore trailer weight, is an issue with our 2019 Tundra 5.7L Double Cab tow vehicle, and LiFePO4 saves a couple hundred pounds vs. lead/acid and (7) the increased cost is offset to some extent by the 10-year probable life of LiFePO4 batteries.
If I had a 7.2kw, relatively quiet and efficient, generator built into my tow vehicle, I may view the lithium upgrade differently.
Hope this helps.
Ralph Pond